Jesse, no one cares about 1996 or the penguins. I really don't care if there were bad calls in every game over the last decade or if this is the first game ever where the officiating was a big deal. The calls were questionable in this game and the outcome could have very easily gone the other way several times in
this game or at the very least poorly handled. I think there is a Hockey thread if you want to go there and talk about the penguins.
We can (obviously) debate forever about whether Harrison's hand was open or not - I could care less if you want to call it a punch or not. Like I said, an open palm hit is just as effective as a punch, so I'll agree to that if it really makes a difference to you. It was a violent hit followed by unprovoked, repeated shoving to the ground no matter what terminology you want to use. You're still being two-faced about the Harrison thing.
You stated what you would tell your kids earlier and it had nothing to do with respecting your opponent - it had to do with "not costing your team." Hitting someone after the game doesn't hurt the team's chances of winning does it? So why would your kids think that's wrong? That's a very clear example of unsportsmanlike conduct - I don't understand why you think sportsmanship is a very fine line. I've played several sports in my day and was never confused about whether my actions or other's actions were right or wrong. If you're confused by this, I again seriously suggest you re-evaluate your decision to coach.
As for the Cleveland game, you've got a warped sense of right and wrong. I do think Harrison was wrong in dropping him to the ground. Here is a guy who clearly can't resisit the opportunity to lay the hurt on someone else. It's not Harrison's job to catch some nutbar on the field, is it? I mean, they do have a few security guys at these games right? Even if he wants to help out, I think there's probably a better way to restrain some drunk than lifting him off the ground, chucking him down, and holding him down by the neck. You're talking about a huge professional athlete in full pads going against a lightweight drunk here - what if he had broken the guy's back or shattered his spine? Yeah the guy "illegally" ran on the field, so he deserves to die, eh? Do you speed up to hit pedestrians walking outside of the cross walk as well?