EU was NEVER canon, and that's my point. There was NEVER a hierarchy to it... It was always what Lucas said, and the rest was bunk if he decided. LFL was pretty clear on this, as was Lucas himself.
Agree. Whether you call it "Expanded Universe" or "Legends" it's all still just a bunch of stuff that might have happened to the Star Wars characters until a movie or TV show overrode it.
For me personally, I don't really care if ALL expanded universe is immediately Star Wars Legends or just post-ROTJ or whatever. At the end of the day, I'm still going to see the EU as the "real" Star Wars continuity until something over-rides it.
So, even though the marriage of Han and Leia and the Anakin, Jacen, and Jaina that resulted from it is now immediately "Legends", it's still the post-ROTJ story of Han Solo until I have something else.