I think I'd be "up" (so to speak) for a private, one-on-one cuddle party with jjks--only if he agrees to abide by the rules:
One exception: He has to pay me the thirty bucks.
- The PJs stay on the whole time
- "No dry humping!"
- the event is not clothing optional
- sex is not permitted
May I kiss you?
I think you need to lay down some clear ground-rules concerning shoes, socks, and/or slippers.
It could save you an akward moment or three.