I know that Lady Jaye is extremely sensitive about her identity getting "out there". I've never understood why....
I've never understood why people are like that, either. Unless you're disfigured or grotesque, or extremely overweight, why would anybody be afraid to share their photo? Nobody here is ideal. It's not like anybody outside these forums will ever see them. I've posted my photo dozens of times, and outside the community nobody would even recognize me. Hell, 95% of the people in the community probably wouldn't recognize me.
My point - it's really no big deal. When people make a big deal out of it, I usually conclude that they want the attention more than anything else.