I said this at that other site, that I won't metion by name anymore....
First things first drink some of the Doctor Pepper.... But not all of it, since it was on the house it be a nice gesture but you do want your wits about you.
Ignore the Twi-lek, if that's who she hangs out with everyday and she doesn't want help that it's her fault.
As for the bartender's offer. I'd tell her I wasn't quite ready to move in with her yet, but thanks her for her generosity, and tell her you like to look for your Uncle so more. You could give her your comm link number and ask her for hers. (Do commlinks have numbers? Maybe some are like cell phones and others are like 2 way radios) Tell her you'd like to get to know her better and that you'd appreciate it if she found out anything about your Uncle. Blow her a kiss goodbye (or at least just tell her. ) And tell her you'll be by some time soon.
Then head down to where the girl wanted to meet you 15 minutes early, wearing the poncho or a change of clothes, hide in some alley way or alcove and check your blaster and the belt and have them ready under your poncho in case anything goes South. Wait a minunte or two once she gets there to make sure she wasn't followed or it isn't a trap, then go see what she has to say.
I'm loving it so far I can't wait to see the next chapter!