Brad, what do you consider to make someone (or something) buddy buddy with? To me it all boils down to trust:
While this has little to do with the military draft, you bring up an interesting point. If you were to ask the everyday Joe Schom he'd probably say he didn't trust the goverment. That'd be a good two hundred something million people, pretty stunning if you think about it.
Hell, the goverment obviously dosen't trust it's self, just take the CIA or FBI for example. Infact the military was largely distrustful/disdainful of each branch until recently.
Then again do we really trust anyone? Maybe a few people, mostly family and old friends, and when you consider all the people that we meet/communicate with, we only really know/trust a small percent. I suppose it's all realitive to the situation, though.