Since I'm already thinking seriously about not collecting figures anymore, and since the main reason I collect figures now is to share them with any kids I might have in the future, it would be pretty easy for me to give up collecting for a woman.
My girlfriend doesn't mind my collection, she does kid me about the posters in my living room and the prop lightsaber collection, but she's never said anything about my hobby being too odd that she'd want me to give it up or anything.