Chris,
Just wanted to add my condolences to you and your wife. I'm sure words offer little comfort at a time like this, but we will definitely add your family to our prayers. My wife and I struggled for a long time to have children and now that we do, I can't imagine what life would be like without them. Just know that one way or another, you will find a way to bring children into your home and take comfort in the fact that you still have each other. Best wishes and hope for the future!
Justin