Hey now! You all need to just step away from my song right now - American Pie. My all-time favorite for many, many years now. Piano Man's definitely up there, and oddly enough, so is The Gambler by Kenny Rogers now, after me and my 7 Groomsmen had a few beers, shot some pool, and sang that song at the top of our lungs like 5 times in a row in a pub the morning of my wedding. Good times!
As for "our" song (that was Patty and I's first dance at our wedding), that would be True Companion by Marc Cohn, who we just happened to watch in concert just last week. He's the fella who sings Walking in Memphis and Silver Thunderbird, in case you didn't know...