Chris didn't threaten to ban you for using your punctuation Lady Jaye, as I noted in my post (BTW Chris didn't even make the point, I did, so addressing Chris as threatening to ban you for your grammar seems a tad irrational when his name wasn't brought up). The point I made though is that we do hold a higher standard of quality here... We don't want the posts of our members to be so poorly structured that they don't make sense, that they add confusion to our boards... Grammar, spelling, punctuation, etc., are what we are addressing so making light of how punctuation goes as "no big deal" around here isn't true... I'm correcting that is all.
It isn't a HUGE deal, but it isn't something we take lightly either and have taken action on people in the past. It wasn't for using excessive exclamation points, but it still is something we watch around here. When there's a problem with excessive exclamation points we're certain a notice will be posted to limit them or cut it out and post properly.
"Style" isn't important here, but our members posting in a respectful and respectable manner is important though, and that's where we've taken action in the past when people felt that their spelling and grammar just weren't important because "it's just a toy forum". It's also a place where you are still putting yourself out there in public and people form opinions on you based on how you present yourself. This includes how you talk to others, how you present your additions to a conversation... It's more important than people give it credit I believe, as like I said there is a greater focus on E-Communications as a legitimate contribution to knowledge, academia, etc.