Here's what I can offer on the issue of safety...
-Protective gear. Get some. Get a good, full face helmet that's DOT or Snell rated. After having a rock the size of a golfball hit the windshield of my car right in front of my face, there's no way I would ever wear a half or 3/4 helmet. Also, get at least a tough leather jacket or a pretty well padded synthetic riding jacket.
-Take the Motorcycle Safety Foundation's Rider Course. This course lasts 3 days, and teaches you all you need to know to ride a motorcycle safely. It teaches you basic riding skills, the rules of the road for motorcycles, and strategies to avoid accidents and bad drivers. You need to have a motorcycle learners permit to take the course. If you complete and pass the riding and written tests of the MSF course, the DMV in your state will in most cases waive your road test, and issue your motorcycle license.