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Watto's Junk Yard / Re: Infidelity.....what say you?
« on: April 24, 2006, 02:15 AM »
I've grown up in a semi-similar situation MWB, with parents who didn't get along...
Mine didn't cheat, but they stayed together for my brother's and I... It was really ultimately the wrong thing. My parents are sort of the old-school mentality though where the wife stays with the husband... He worked, my mother didn't have the career and independance she could (should) have... No infidelity or physical abuse or anything, but I can attest that mental abuse is just as bad if not worse.
Not the best situation for children or my mother... Funny how you look at, say grandparents then, and see the traits that make your parents who they are, and act the ways they do... What's scary is finding some of the same traits in yourself though. I catch myself sometimes, and try to supress it. I don't like it.
Mine didn't cheat, but they stayed together for my brother's and I... It was really ultimately the wrong thing. My parents are sort of the old-school mentality though where the wife stays with the husband... He worked, my mother didn't have the career and independance she could (should) have... No infidelity or physical abuse or anything, but I can attest that mental abuse is just as bad if not worse.
Not the best situation for children or my mother... Funny how you look at, say grandparents then, and see the traits that make your parents who they are, and act the ways they do... What's scary is finding some of the same traits in yourself though. I catch myself sometimes, and try to supress it. I don't like it.